I didn't cheat, 
I didn't lie, 
So her leaving took me by surprise. 
Just a note on the table, 
Saying we're through. 
At first I went crazy, 
So it took me sometime. 
But I finally read between the lines. 
It's not what I did, 
It's what I didn't do. 

I didn't tell her, 
Each day I loved her. 
I took it for granted, 
Somehow she knew. 
I didn't hold her, 
When she needed a shoulder. 
It's not what I did, 
It's what I didn't do. 

Now it's easy to see, 
Why her love died. 
She was planning her nights, 
By the T.V. Guide. 
She needed me with her, 
More than I knew. 
I was too busy working, 
Getting ahead. 
When I should of been home, 
Loving her instead. 
It's not what I did, 
It's what I didn't do. 

I didn't tell her, 
Each day I loved her. 
I took it for granted, 
Somehow she knew. 
I didn't hold her, 
When she needed a shoulder. 
It's not what I did, 
It's what I didn't do. 
Oh, It's not what I did, 
It's what I didn't do.